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What’s Next 1: Are You Too Busy To Celebrate DONE?

July 16, 2015 ShellyStokes

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Celebrate Done

So, why is it that every time we finish up a big “thing” in our life, we automatically go right to asking “what’s next?” (Think project, quilt, painting, room makeover… you get the idea.) Worse yet, if it was a REALLY BIG THING, we get extreme and go directly to “how are you going to top that?”

For the record, someone actually asked me that question as I was telling him about my big prize at the Minnesota Quilt Show –  and deep down, I wanted to wring his neck. Are we a bunch of crazy people or what?

Don’t be a party pooper… Celebrate DONE before you jump into the Next Big Thing!

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I’ll stop my rant here and talk like a normal person, but this is really important – especially if the BIG THING we just finished is part of our Creative Life.

Rather than writing a novel, I’m going to break this down into three posts. Today, we’ll talk about celebrating. Then, over the next two weeks, we’ll dig into that big looming question of What’s Next. But first, it’s time to have some fun!

STOP

StopWhen someone asks you (or you ask yourself) What’s Next, I want you to STOP. You know the drill… Go Directly To Jail, Do Not Pass Go, DO NOT COLLECT $200!

Stop, stop, STOP – until you celebrate the thing you just finished!

That’s right. Before you start the NEXT BIG THING, give yourself time to appreciate what you just finished by doing at least two of the things on my Five Ways to Celebrate DONE list. And if it was really big, scary or life-changing, bust loose and do them all! (And yes, you certainly have permission to create your own list!)

Breathe

That’s right. Just breathe. Slow down, sit down, close your eyes and breathe.

Relish the moment. Enjoy the completion. Absorb the energy that comes with done.

In our fast-paced world, it’s really easy to blow past something as simple as a quiet moment of gratitude, but it’s something I find incredibly helpful. Try it. I think you’ll like it.

Keep a TA DA! ListTa Da List

This is where my friend Karolyn Blume has it all figured out. In a recent blog post, Karolyn proposed that we should all have a Ta Da! list to go along with our To Do list. It’s not a brand new idea, but I love the name. A Ta Da! List sounds so much more fun than a completion list or a gratitude journal. Call it whatever you want, but keeping a list of the things we get done (small and large) is a great way to celebrate DONE.

Karolyn, by the way, is the author of a really cool book called Eat the Elephant: Overcoming Overwhelm. The strategies in her book make it a whole lot easier to get stuff off the “to do” list and onto the “Ta Da!” list.

Share the Moment

Once you have internalized that warm feeling that comes with Done, share your completion with someone special. Whenever possible, share with the people who can really appreciate your accomplishment.

When I finished Bailando en la Noche, my big art quilt project, I met my stitching friends at the local wine bar to celebrate. These are the women who witnessed the creation of my quilts over a period of 18 months, put up with my chatter, gave me input when I asked for help (and sometimes when I didn’t), and encouraged me along the way. It was great to share the completion with them. They knew – even better than my husband – just how much time and effort went into the making of the quilts. It was fun!

Tell the WorldShare good news

For me, this is the hardest thing to do. I grew up with a heaping dose of “don’t toot your own horn” and “don’t get too big for your own britches.” You know the drill… pride goeth before the fall and all that rot.

Well, I’m here to say that it’s perfectly okay to celebrate in public – as long as you stick with stuff that won’t get you arrested or embarrass the hell out of you at your next job interview!

Take a selfie with your creation and post it on Facebook. Do a happy dance. (Do it in public if you are really daring!) Have a friend take a picture of you with your quilt at the show – especially if you won a ribbon! You can celebrate without being obnoxious – and the sky will not fall if you share your joy.

Send a Press Release

I think we can agree that we won’t be sending press releases when we make an art postcard for a friend or a baby quilt for the grandchild. But, there are times when sending a press release is exactly what you need to do to build your reputation as an artist, teacher, author, etc. After all, if the “News” people don’t know about your big accomplishment, they can’t interview you, promote your next show or make you famous, right?

Think About What’s Next

Now (and only now) can you move on to contemplating the question of What’s Next. We’ll get into that in the next post

Check out 5 Great Ways to Celebrate DONE from creative mentor Shelly Stokes.

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Comments

  1. Dale Ricklefs says

    July 16, 2015 at 10:13 am

    When I retired after 30 years of growing a public library in a city that grew from 11,000 to 104,000, along with all of the technological changes, the question I always got was, “What are you doing now?” My response was, “I do not need to be doing.” I am busy contributing time to various nonprofits and helping out at a sewing machine and quilt store on occassion, but I jealously guard what is now, except for family, my time. “Doing” can be something as simple as watering my potted plants, creating a greeting card, or visiting friends. One friend calls it “being.” As I approach the 5th year of my retirement, time slips through my fingers as quickly as when I was working. If anything, time seems to be slipping away faster and faster…

    • Shelly says

      July 19, 2015 at 1:41 pm

      Ah, you have got right to the heart of the issue, Dale. We get so busy in the Doing that we forget about simply Being. Having spent several years figuring out what I am here to “BE” (rather than what I am here to “DO”), I heartily agree that we should treasure the time that we take to simply BE in our lives.

      I spent a good deal of my day yesterday sitting on the deck, just watching the birds and the clouds drift by. And after a day of “doing” very little, I felt refreshed and ideas for my next project started bubbling up. I often have to slow down enough for the ideas to catch my attention. My muse is much quieter than the other things clanging for my attention. 🙂

  2. Marlene Koogan says

    July 17, 2015 at 10:11 am

    Congratulations Shelly, way to go. Thanks for reminding us to celebrate the project we just finished before going on to our next project. Have to admit that I never really thought about it. Thanks again! Marlene

    • Shelly says

      July 19, 2015 at 1:42 pm

      You are so welcome, Marlene. If you need permission to stop and have a little party, consider it granted! 😉

    • Shelly says

      July 31, 2015 at 10:27 am

      You are so welcome, Marlene. In our go-go-go world, it’s much to easy to skip the party. 😉

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